Help....From the ladies!?

ok just sit her down and tell her what is on your mind. that is all girls ever ask for. i mean even if you have to be blunt i would in thins case because if you don't confront the situation then your relationship will suffer for it in the long run to where she will not trust you at all. and also apologize, because if you feel like the cause of these events then its gonna clear your conscious too.