Help...from the ladies!?

any woman who asks her husband those kinds of questions and then holds it against him is very stupid. If you weren't mature enough to say something like those are trick questions that have no answer that will satisfy you.. then that is your only fault..being young and not having experience to understand that her insecurity isn't able to be "cured" by you and that whatever you said would have been taken badly by her, better to always plead the fifth...